A bit of Torah in honor of mothers (Kiddushin 31b):
“When Rabbi Joseph heard his mother’s footsteps, he would say: ‘I will arise before the approaching Shekhinah.’
Shekhinah is a reference to the presence of God, coming from Exodus 25:8, “Let them make Me a sanctuary that I may dwell among them.”
Honoring one’s father and mother, the fifth of the ten pronouncements, forms a bridge between the mitzvot between human beings and God and the mitzvot between human beings. The placement of this command reminds us that our parents are potentially our earliest link to God. Similarly, the statement of Rabbi Joseph honors his mother as the one who gave him life and links him to the presence of God.
Let us be thankful to our mothers, those who gave us biological life and/or those who raised us. They gave us life and hopefully taught us something about how to use our life to bring light and goodness into the world.
Thank you to my colleague Rabbi Rob Scheinberg for sharing the source.
i have heard as a parent, that we are the first representation of Hashem to our children, so if we as parents are rough or not loving or distant our children can perceive Hashem this way,kinda same coin other side